First- I'm back! No excuses for my long absence- so I won't even try. A few notes- I am not going to be as long winded as I was in the past. You're busy and I know it, and I want to respect that! I'm going to try to post at least once a week. Finally- when we get long readings handed to us - I will try to focus on just a few verses! Now let's get to it!
I love when Jesus acknowledges children- it's a reminder of the why I do what I do (Director of youth and family ministries). Just as Jesus did, I am called to acknowledge and lift up children! It's especially fulfilling when Jesus says "Whoever welcomes one such child in my name welcomes me"
Jesus goes beyond acknowledging this nameless child, Jesus tells us "unless you change and become like children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven" That's a serious charge.
What is about a child (or children in general) that we should aspire to? Well one quality is clear- the humbleness of children. And let's not forget Jesus is responding to the question from his disciples "Who is the greatest?". I must admit I've been there - I've wanted to be the best AND wanted to be recognized for it. Am I alone in this? Is it just me that wants praise, adoration, and recognition for being good at something? I am thinking probably not (at least I'm in the same boat as the disciples appear to be in).
So back to kids. Kids know they aren't the best- well at least they used to. I worry about kids nowadays- I see parents pushing their kids into extremely competitive sports environments, scholastic endeavors, and pushing them to be the best. Coaches and parents may say it's about teamwork, leadership, working towards a common goal, but more often than not, I see the adults lifting up one or two children as "the greatest". When we purposefully compete, we naturally try to be the best. A recent car commercial (at least I think it's a car ad) says they don't make giant foam fingers with two fingers, and no one strives to come in second...you get the gist.
Sorry for the tangent but to the conclusion. When I think of qualities of children that are worth emulating I think of these -
- They naturally know right and wrong (not nearly as many shades of gray)
- They get what is fair and what is unfair (their sense of justice)
- They believe that magic and miracles can and do exist
- They can believe something without having to fully understand it
- At least a part of them knows they need guidance from above (perhaps just from a parent)
- They trust easier
- They love easier
- They forgive easier
- They hope easier
- They know they aren't the ultimate authority in life
- They admit to messing up better and more quickly than adults
Dear God,
Remind me I am your beloved child. Remind me that you love me better than even my earthly parents could. Help me to simply trust in you, as a child trusts their parents. Guide me to loving you and loving others as a child loves- without question and without hesitation. Lord, bless the children of our lives, bless children everywhere, watch over, protect, and love the most vulnerable of children. In Christ's name I pray- Amen.